Help Me Write The Next Version of My Online Dating Manual
I am now updating and re-writing the Ultimate Online Dating Manual. It’s been three years since I’ve released it so the time has come to update it.
The problem is that I don’t do nearly as much online dating these days as I did in years past. 13 years of living the amazing Alpha Male 2.0 lifestyle as resulted in my OLTR Marriage plus several active FBs plus have a huge roster of women to draw upon whenever I need to plus I have plenty of online dating/sugar daddy skills to quickly replenish things whenever needed (if ever) with very little time or effort. This all means that I’m not the hardcore online dater I used to be.
I can still teach the core concepts of online dating that never change such as the optimal way to take and present your online photos, the best way to create and word openers and date pitches, the best times to swipe/open women and to schedule dates, and so on. These techniques never change even though the apps, sites, and systems do.
What I can’t teach anymore are some of the platform-specific techniques. For example, I haven’t even touched Tinder in almost two years, and I’ve never done any Instagram game even though I know some of you are killing it on Instagram.
This is where I need your help. If you have been actually having sex (that means your penis goes inside her vagina) with multiple women within the last 6-10 months (before and/or after Coronavirus) using any of the methods I list below, email me here and give me an overview of what you’re doing and the results you’re getting. I will then vet you (you will have to show me massive credible evidence that you’re not lying or exaggerating) and if it’s clear you’re reporting your techniques and results honestly, I will use your techniques in the upcoming book. Then you can have any of my online courses you want for free. (The list of all of my available courses is here if you’d like to take a look.) You can be 100% anonymous and I can write your contributions for you if you wish.
If you’re a little braver and want to really cash in, I can also use your online dating profiles, messages, and photos for the actual online dating video course that I’m planning. If you’re willing to do that, I’ll give you even more free materials (more courses, books, one-on-one coaching, whatever we negotiate).
Here are online dating topic areas I’m interested in:
- Swipe apps, particularly Tinder and Bumble
- The usual “normal” apps like Plenty of Fish, OKCupid, etc
- Using any social media dating app you’re using for online dating, such as Instagram game, Snapchat/TikTok game (LinkedIn too), and so on
So if you’re interested, email your story here and we’ll get started. Some of you are going to get some free courses.
Covid has killed online dating for now at least. I’m 43, been doing it since 2015 and had a fair amount of success thanks to BD critiquing my photos & profile. I even managed to meet & have sex with some cute VYW (aged 18-23).
I went back on recently and it’s a disaster, nobody wants to talk at all. Women are now afraid to get out & meet new people.
In my country the health authorities are actually telling people to wear masks during sex or the Covid bogeyman will get them, it’s become completely insane.
One thing I will say that I had WAY more success from swipe apps (Tinder, Bumble) than normal dating sites (POF, OKC).
Contact Jon from modern life dating and Myron gaines from unplug fitness. they’re very good at online dating. Specially apps and instagram.
Both of these guys have approval of rich Cooper and Rollo
“(you will have to show me massive credible evidence that you’re not lying or exaggerating)”
This is just too ironic I’m laughing so hard. They have to provide massive credible evidence, yet, with every word you say about how good you are with women, you ask your readers to employ religion-level blind faith to believe it.
You have never provided even the smallest, tiniest, most minute imaginable scrap of evidence that anything at all that you have ever said regarding your own dating success and skill set is true.
I’ve always wondered what kind of cognitive dissonance you employ to get around this in your own head. You go on and on about how you deal in nothing but solid, provable facts, and encourage you readers to do the same.
But if any of them actually took that advice, then they would have to assume you’re full of shit and move on to a coach that has provided “massive credible evidence” that he’s the real deal.
Your advice is literally that nobody in their right mind should listen to you. You don’t meet your own criteria for credibility. I find this absolutely fascinating.
Then that’s your city. In most cities this is not the case. Harder, yes. Disaster, no. I just talked to a guy yesterday who had 4 first dates this week from normal online dating (not sugar daddy).
Cool, I will.
You mean like this for example? (And now you’re just going to say that’s not real evidence for some reason because that’s what guys like you always say because you’ll never be satisfied with anything I show you, even if I showed actual video of my dick going inside a hot girl, making your complaint a literal waste of time for both you and me.)
Gamblinsam, you’ve been vomiting all over my blog for months now with your non-stop bitching and negativity and I’ve been very patient with you. Goodbye. And as you go, please read this entire article very, very carefully and as calmly and rationally as you can (which I know is going to be hard for you). No hard feelings and I honestly wish you all the best.
In your last ama video , I got to know you indeed sleep with a lot of 9s and 10s.
My question is where the fuck do you find them? Online dating sites?
They act so entitled there. What of I do? I tried everything
The best I can get is an 8 through your system, day game, etc etc.
Thanks for sharing
I don’t sleep with a lot of 10s. There are very few where I live. 8s and 9s yes, but I really hate the 1 to 10 scale because it’s too subjective. On the ugly, average, cute, and hot scale, all the women in my sex life right now are hot except for one who is cute.
Yes and sugar daddy sites. Every city is different though and you have to put in a LOT of numbers.
Depends on your city. In Los Angeles, yes, the hot women are entitled. In a place like Seattle or Denver they’re not. If you live in a city where hot women are entitled, stop complaining and MOVE to a different city.
Just about everyone I’ve seen who has says they’ve “tried everything” hasn’t. I’d bet $1000 your photos could be dramatically improved, as just one example.
1. Dude what’s wrong with 8s? 8s are fucking great!
2. If you can’t get women you consider attractive using my system or daygame (which is completely different than my system) than you have a deeper issue you’re not addressing.
Can you upload your photos? The ones you use on online dating sites? Please.
Sure but not for free. I’ll show all of them in the online dating course we’re working on.
And please pick one name and stick with it; don’t use multiple different names in the same thread. Thanks.
Maybe not in a PDF (in case some guys stop doing photography, a year or two later and their contact details don’t work anymore), but I’d suggest listing SLR fashion photographers who are in different US states, in different Canadian states, in Australian states, in NZ, in the UK, western Europe, south east Asia and South America.
Maybe do an affiliate thing and say: ‘hey are you someone who has decent experience in fashion photography shooting guys and you also know about game.
I keep getting guys saying they can’t find a good SLR photographer who can make them look more sexually attractive, so if you know how to shoot a guy well, you know what clothes suit a guy and how to get a guy relaxed in a shoot, I want to hear from you and see examples of your SLR pics of guys. Or a representative of mine will look at them and will report back to me.
If a guy who buys my online game book, contacts me looking for a SLR photographer in Canada for example, I’ll refer you and you’d give me a 5 or 10% cut. If multiple guys referred, start saying very good things to me about your SLR pics you take of them and your price isn’t exorbitant, I’ll refer you even more’.
You’ve previously said find a college student studying photography to get pics taken, but that’s not good enough and it usually doesn’t work, even if you found one, as they’re just not experienced enough. I used a guy earlier this year who said he had 30 grand worth of SLR camera gear and his pics were crap, so I wasted $120 he charged.
A typical fashion photographer might take a few hundred pics and offer a deal where they’ll give you 50 pics of your choice that they’ll put through Lightroom and that’s what a guy should go for.
One guy I spoke to, said he charges $Aus 400 and he’d give a guy 10 finished pics for every shoot, but I thought that was too high, for a guy who said he hasn’t even shot guys before and that he usually only does fashion shoots of women.
There is no way in hell I could put all of that together and vet all of those guys to make sure they’re all good.
Incorrect. Usually those guys work just fine. And occasionally they won’t, just like any other person one could hire to do anything (the Rule of Three).
One experience with one person is not a statistic nor a trend (as I’ve said here many times).
Yeah I was more having a bitch at Covid for ruining my fun, my city has generally been good over the last few years. Almost a million people within 45 minute drive and plenty of cute women on the swipe apps.
Holy shit BD that’s the first time I’ve ever seen a pic of PF. Wow!!!
I have a lot of experience getting dates via Tinder using my own streamlined process. I can evidence this with a large number of screenshots of conversations where the women gave me their phone number, conversations including pictures of the girls. Of course getting phone numbers or a message saying she wants to meet doesnt meant I have had sex with all of those but I am not sure what other evidence is possible to provide. Maybe I can find some screenshots with conversations I had with women where it is clear from the discussions we met many times and had sex.
I am also willing to appear in an interview but would not do that in exchange only for free courses. If you are interested to discuss possibility on getting commission from the sales of books or courses that include this material and my interviews then I am interested to discuss.
AlphaOmega – Email me. theonlyblackdragon@gmail.com
Sounds good, how’s your own streamlined process different from Caleb’s Get To Sex Fast system?
His system is general, but I find it he doesn’t go into enough detail on how to use modern dating methods especially stuff like swiping apps. Its a collection of tricks that remove a lot of work and effort from the process and is based on understanding how these apps work to maximize response and matches. I am also able to provide advice on how to handle the conversations for maximum efficiency and high chance of getting dates. The rest if up to you, I don’t have any advice for actual dates that is different or better than what BD and other established personnas on the internet advice, but I am quite good on picking up non verbal cues from women which I can can use to get the timing right on dates or to know whether its worth the effort or not, that I can also teach.