This young lady is Jenna Marbles, a popular YouTube personality. I like Jenna. She’s spunky and is actually somewhat talented. However on the issue of sex, she’s as full of ASD as any other societally-programmed woman.
She’s not an idiot though. Like many women (and men), she arrives at her “casual sex is bad” stance from several points that are actually quite valid. This is exactly how ASD in the modern age has become so insidious.

-By Caleb Jones

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EU20JnsYiXc
Back in the old days, ASD was purely formed from a bunch of religious bullshit. It had no foundation in fact. It was just a bunch of Needy Alpha hellfire and brimstone to ensure dude’s wives wouldn’t fuck other guys and to ensure guys could fuck virgins. It was all crap.

Today, people cloak ASD around some reasons that, on their face, actually sound pretty good. For example, in the above video, Jenna makes some points that make perfect sense.

Women having unprotected sex is bad because they might get STD’s. I agree.

Women shouldn’t go home with guys they just met because it’s a threat to their safety, especially when they’re drunk. I agree.

Women are stupid if they don’t consider blowjobs or anal sex as sex. I agree.

Women are stupid when they get knocked up on accident. I more than agree. (However notice, as I pointed out in that link, that Jenna is nice to these women by buying them baby gifts, thus giving these women the attention they crave and ensuring more women go out and get pregnant to garner more attention from women “just being nice” like Jenna.)

All good points. But then she suddenly bends logic into a pretzel, like so many people do out there, and says that having sex with a lot of people is bad.

Why? What to any of those things have to do with having sex with more than one person?

Worse, she ends the video by doing a huge leap in irrationality and saying that monogamy is an expression of logic and reasoning. (BWAAAAAHAHAHAHAHA!) I think it would amaze her to realize that it’s actually quite the opposite. People get monogamous because of raging emotions, chemicals in the brain, EFA, fear, neediness, and societal programming. People who resist monogamy are the rational ones.

People in society do exactly what Jenna has done here. They use the oddball logic of:

“Going home with a guy you just met is unsafe, therefore fucking lots of guys is bad.”

Huh?

No, what’s bad is going home with a guy you just met while you’re drunk and risking your safety. That’s bad. The act of fucking a lot of guys isn’t bad at all, as long as you do it responsibly. I fuck a lot of women all the time, yet I just got my last STD test results in and I’m clean, and I’ve never gotten a woman pregnant on accident in my entire life. How is this possible?

Because I fuck a lot of people in a very responsible, adult manner. It can be done if you choose to be adult about it. The problem, as I’ve said so many times, is people who fuck a lot of people and aren’t adult about it.

Let me give you an example of the oddball thinking I’m talking about. Let’s say there’s a woman who fucks six different guys in ten days. Is this woman a “slut”? The kneejerk, societally-programmed reaction of your brain was probably an instant “yes” to that question.

Now let me flesh out the story a little (pun intended). Let’s say that she knew all six men very well, none of the guys have any history of violence, drug use, or any other dangerous behavior, all six guys used a condom on her (correctly), she was 100% sober while she had sex with these men, she is not clinically depressed, bi-polar, or anything like that, and she gets regular STD tests twice a year.

Now, is she still a slut?

If your answer is no, then congratulations.  Unlike Jenna Marbles, you are thinking rationally and logically and are overcoming your societal programming. Well done.

If your answer is still yes, you are a victim, likely a willing one, of false societal programming. That’s very unfortunate. I would love to hear your reasoning why fucking a lot of guys in a responsible way (as demonstrated above) is bad, moreover worthy of an insulting name like “slut”.

There is nothing wrong with what that woman is doing in the above scenario, and calling this woman a “slut” is damaging not only to her, but to you and society at large. Society could use more women who behave that responsibly, believe me. I’d take one woman like this to live in my society over 20 women who get monogamous, have babies, then get divorced and spend the rest of their lives chasing child support, alimony, food stamps, welfare and new husbands to help them pay their bills. Society celebrates those women, but it calls women in my above example “sluts”. No wonder society is so fucked up. With “logic” like that, it sort of deserves it.

If the woman in my example is a “slut”, society needs more sluts. Way more.

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