Fair warning: I’m going to be a little emotional today. I’m about to get really mad at several groups of you. Consider yourself warned.
You may have already seen this story floating around the internet. This is a homeless guy, yes a homeless guy who actually sleeps on the street, who regularly has sex with new women and gets them to let him stay the night over at their homes.

-By Caleb Jones

This story brings up two completely different topics, an obvious one with a great message, and a not-so-obvious one that has a sinister message. I will cover both there.

What’s Your Excuse?
All over the internet, men are giving the following excuses about why they can’t get laid:

“I live at home with my parents.”
“I live with roommates.”
“I don’t make any money.”
“I only make minimum wage.”
“I don’t drive a cool car.”
“Only rich guys get laid.”
“Only guys with good jobs get laid.”
“The only reason so-and-so gets laid is because he has a good job / cool car / cool apartment / is rich / blah blah blah.”

Let me say it again. This guy is fucking homeless. He’s an unemployed alcoholic and drug addict who literally sleeps on the streets…and he gets laid by new women regularly. And no, he’s not super good-looking and he’s not ripped.

This instantly renders all of the above excuses as complete bullshit.

I don’t want to hear any guy say they can’t get laid because of their incomes or living conditions ever again. Seriously, guys. Thank god this homeless guy came along to show these excuse-makers how wrong they have always been.

Some of the most successful PUAs / players I know or have talked to have been poor guys who have been unemployed for long stretches and spend most of their nights on friend’s couches. They still get laid like madmen.

You do not need money to get laid if you have strong game, outcome independence, and confidence, all of which you can learn and develop even if you’re starting from absolute zero. (I did.) Good Christ, stop with the excuses. I’m going to keep this post bookmarked forever so I can immediately throw it at any guy stupid or lazy enough to whine like a little bitch about how he can’t get laid because he has no money or lives at home with his parents.

I’m not saying a good income can’t help your game; of course it can and I’ll get to that in a minute. I’m saying it’s in no way required, and if you think it is, you’re dead wrong.

A Dark, New Trend

Now I’m going to completely switch gears and beat up on a completely different group of you guys. While I applaud this homeless dude by showing the excuse-makers how full of shit they are, at the same time this guy is part of a new trend occurring right now in society, including within the manosphere. This is a very evil shift in thinking among men, and is more nails in the coffin for the typical modern man.

This trend is a growing wave of men, usually in their twenties, who take a very feminine, disempowering position when they look at life. Their thought process goes something like this:

I don’t make much money, and I probably never will. So I’ll get a FB, girlfriend, or wife who makes more money than me. She’ll take care of me. She can buy my food and help me pay for my car and my college debts. I can live in a bigger house / better apartment because of her. I can even get married without a prenup, then SHE will have to pay ME alimony if we get divorced! Mwahahaha! Total win! I can just sit on my ass, go drinking with my buddies, play video games, be a total loser, and higher-income women can take care of me the rest of my life. Yay!

More and more men in society are choosing this path, or a path that looks similar. Even more frightening and depressing, I have begun to see men within the manosphere defend this lifestyle, including on this very blog.

I cannot begin to tell you how sad this makes me for my fellow brothers. As if insane feminism wasn’t enough. As if the victory of left-liberalism wasn’t enough. As if the fall of western civilization wasn’t enough. As if the family court system being anti-man wasn’t enough. No, on top of all that, some of you want to chose a path of a financially dependent, submissive loser woman-man and look forward to being completely dependent on women to take care of you like you’re some kind of man-child.

God dammit, you guys have let me down, in so many ways it’s hard to describe.

Being financially dependent on a woman like this is the complete and diametric opposite to what an Alpha 2.0 is, does, and lives. What separates the Alpha 2.0 from his beta (and many of his Alpha 1.0) brothers is that he is completely independent, and thus free. He can do whatever he wants without having to depend on anyone else. “Anyone else” includes a FB, girlfriend, or wife.

A man with the nagging worry that he may lose his house or his meal ticket if his higher-income girlfriend/wife might leave him isn’t Alpha 2.0. It isn’t even Alpha 1.0. It’s beta beyond belief. You might be a more clever, more confident, playerish beta, but you’re still a fucking beta. You will never, ever live the life that I live, nor will you ever achieve a level of happiness, fulfillment, and freedom that men like me experience on a regular basis.

If you are thinking about taking the path of the dependent clever loser-man, please reconsider immediately. Not only is it not Alpha, it’s not even masculine. Sititng around wasting your life while a woman takes care of you is not what a man is.

If you ever see any man giving this kind of dependent clever loser-man advice, please remember what I said today. Following that path will never make you fulfilled or happy; not in the long-term anyway.

Instead, do these three things:

1. Learn game and get good at having sex with new women.

2. Get your income up to at least $75,000 a year via your own small business without working too many hours per week to do it.

3. Keep your physical appearance as decent as your age, schedule, and genetics allow.

Do those three things, and you will be free; completely free to do whatever the hell you want. As a man, the more free you are, the more happy you will be. It won’t matter how much women make or don’t make, do or don’t do. Your happiness and fulfillment as a man will be yours no matter what.
That’s success. Not like this guy.

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