25 Aug Real Life Alpha Male 2.0 Success Stories
-By Caleb Jones
These stories are written in their own words, presented here completely unedited and raw. In compiling these stories, we made sure to include stories from men of…
All ages, from age 18 to 60.
All socioeconomic levels, from college students just getting started in life to older, experienced business owners.
All relationship statues, including single men, married men, and divorced men.
Various locations around the world, including the US and Europe.
Various races, including white, Asian, Indian, and others.Regardless of where you are in life, you will find at least several of these stories that you can relate to. If they can do it, you can do it.
Since the book was first published a year and half ago, I have received thousands of emails from men just like you who have accomplished things like…
Increasing their incomes, often doubling or even tripling them.
Decreasing the average amount of weekly hours they work.
Start profitable, location independent businesses, often from scratch.
Dramatically improving their dating lives, dating more women and/or higher quality women.
Opened up their marriages or monogamous relationships to have sex with other women besides their wives or girlfriends, with their permission.
Improve their confidence, happiness, and overall satisfaction with life as men.
If they can do it, you can do it. It’s all in The Unchained Man, my most important and comprehensive book. No matter your current situation, you CAN find happiness and freedom in life, as you’re about to see when you read that PDF
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Phero
Posted at 08:42 am, 25th August 2016The last one made me smile
POB
Posted at 09:21 am, 25th August 2016Wow, really surprised that my piece made it!!!
Interesting stories so far, will sure read it all.
THX for the initiative.
donnie demarco
Posted at 09:41 am, 25th August 2016Awesome. I really enjoyed the winning entries you posted a while back, and was looking forward to this.
Zoe
Posted at 12:53 pm, 25th August 2016Happiness and self-fulfillment seem to be the common themes in these success stories.
This pdf couldn’t have come at a better time. I recently recommended this site to a friend of mine, and I”m willing to bet this pdf will give him a good introduction into the life-changing impact an Alpha 2 lifestyle can provide.
Blackdragon, I know you’re not looking for accolades— especially from a female novice like me— but I gotta say, you should be proud of the meaningful changes you’ve helped create. Cheers to you, BD!
Ts
Posted at 03:41 pm, 25th August 2016Thanks BD
I’ve been following you since early 2013. It has been a long journey but like these guys in the pdf I am well on my way.
Caleb Jones
Posted at 05:08 pm, 25th August 2016Thanks for the kind words everybody!
Al
Posted at 06:22 pm, 25th August 2016All I’ll say is this: At my age, I can tell you that it is NEVER too late to change for the better. By luck more than judgement I have stayed single since age 27 but BD’s teachings have made a great difference in the way that I look at things and most importantly the way I react – or rather don’t react but instead, respond to things.
All good stuff. Thank you. 🙂
johnnybegood
Posted at 08:17 am, 26th August 2016Will definitely check it out. +100 for including different ages and backgrounds, definitely actually listening to what people want, rare for most people putting stuff out these days.
shubert
Posted at 07:52 pm, 26th August 2016I like the one about the dad in Quebec…
I want to make enough ($100,000+ a year) so that I can have the option to leave my job. And if I get tired of their shit, I can always pursue my passion in robotics.
shubert
Posted at 08:04 pm, 26th August 2016Derp, I meant Montreal.
Bs
Posted at 11:51 pm, 26th August 2016I wish that I would be number 16.
BD do you have Alpha Males 2.0 from Israel (in ur forum)?
Calebian Jr.
Posted at 02:24 am, 27th August 2016WoW, thank you B.l.a.c.k Drrraagon!
I’m new reader in you blog. By the way, have you ever addressed the issue of boredomness in a relationship(mono/non-mono)?
Bs
Posted at 05:22 am, 27th August 2016Did all of the 15 men had their journey to Alpha Male 2.0 via your subsription to your forum or some of them only read a book or 2 of yours?
I try to measure their success accordingly. not Troll.
thx
Caleb Jones
Posted at 11:39 am, 27th August 2016Not sure what you mean by my “forum.” I assume you mean my membership program. I don’t think we have any guys from Israel but it’s entirely possible. I don’t personally speak to everyone in the program, depending on what level they are.
Only two guys (I think) of the 15 are or were in my membership program. All the rest just read my book and/or this blog.
JB
Posted at 03:00 am, 29th August 2016@BS
My story is in the publication, so I can tell you first hand that I stuck to BD’s ‘The unchained man’ book as well as his myriad of blog posts (and other contributions to the manosphere)
I can honestly say that it changed my life forever. I am not only consistently happy, but also completely confident and easily the most successful guy in my entire social circle (not considering the SP definition of being happy for having children and being married of course)
An update to my story is that I now make about $70k a year before taxes with a 32 hour work week with flexible hours, doing something I absolutely love and consistent with my mission.
Once again, thank you for guiding the way BD.
Bs
Posted at 07:22 am, 29th August 2016@JB how old are u? +i am a virgin so i dont know whether it is fit me.
JB
Posted at 11:05 am, 29th August 2016@BS
Well I am 26 now and as the story stated, I started my journey when I was 22.
Took me about three years to really learn the ropes and turn my life around.
You have to realise that the whole change from being a beta – feeling that you should just fit in, following the societal norms, trying to please other people – to being a confident, successful and skilled man takes time. Years. The good thing is that as soon as you start truly changing – because you want to change – you are already seeing progress after a short while. And for me, the progress carried me very far.
Now I wasn’t a virgin when I started out – I’d had one girlfriend who ended up cheating on me because of my beta behaviour, and then a faithful yet dramatic relationship with an otherwise sweet girl – who I had let give me drama, and thus she often complained as any monogamous long term girlfriend ends up doing. Boy have I learned.
Now you might be a virgin – that’s fine. Blackdragon was in his twenties when he got his first lay, and now he’s downed more women than most of us can dream of.
Now I haven’t been in your shoes, but I can only think that your first and foremost goal should simply be putting your cock in a woman. I don’t care if she is ugly. You need to get over the anxiety that comes with being a virgin – and best to do that with a girl you are not going to want to fuck forever. After that, learn some seduction skills, get a mission, become a man of action. Blackdragons material goes a long way to becoming your own master. I recommend Chase (see the links on the front page) for learning how to pick up women.
Good luck with everything. Remember, it’s going to take time, but from then on you will wake up every day feeling confident, happy, fulfilled and with no financial, moral, sexual or societal obligations. And being there, I know you can’t really ask for anything better.
POB
Posted at 01:11 pm, 29th August 2016@Bs
Never subscribed or payed for any of BD’s stuff, but bought the Alpha 2.0 book and it sure helped me a lot!
To me the book is a practical manual on how to become your own man and be happy in a world full of misconceptions and hatred towards us. It covers everything from business, to women, to raising a family, etc, etc. I’m sure every guy who reads it for the first time will be speechless on the amount of BS standing between us and the life of a real Alpha man. Good news is we can control most of it (if not all). I just wish I’ve found this stuff sooner in life (I’m 36 now, but well on my way to the life I want)
Quick facts:
– Regular reader of this blog for the past +2 years;
– Regular poster on the Masf forum for 1+ year (despite of what some may say, there’s very good stuff going on there)
– Read a lot of books recommended by BD;
– I’m a very practical guy, so I field test every theory if I feel it’s valid (especially in seduction);
– Took me a little more than one year to fully grasp the online dating stuff, plus the management part of open relationships, but once you get the hang of it becomes second nature;
– A personal challenge was to balance expectations and reality when going on dates and establishing open relationships. I fucked up a lot in the beginning and lost easy lays with women I found hot…or was cut short in relationships with girls I wished stayed longer in my life. The trick is realizing there’s a learning curve that’s different for everybody;
– I too was a late bloomer and lost my virginity in my early twenties. Who cares? Today I’m one of (if not the) best guy to all the women that are lucky enough to hop in my bed. Sorry if it sounds like bragging, but 90% of the ones that turn out as FBs or MLTRs tell me that point blank (usually after we do it and they get their share of orgasms). What I do, you may ask…nothing out of the ordinary for an Alpha 2.0 (which is far ahead of what other men will ever do with them).
Point is: this stuff works. As long as you’re willing to put in the effort and take right actions, you’ll see amazing improvement in your life as a whole.
Parade
Posted at 08:11 pm, 29th August 2016@pob
This stuff didn’t work out so well for me. I should expand on that — the alpha stuff resonates and works, outcome independence works, it’s the specific lines and approach that BD uses that fails. The “Send out a million online messages” approach fails; I have much better luck in both responses and lays by sending one or two slightly customized messages in response to them showing more interest in me (like, say, favoriting me on OKC)
JB
Posted at 10:26 pm, 29th August 2016@parade
If you are using match-based dating apps like happn and tinder, I’ve discovered that the single easiest way to get a girl out is simply writing:
Hey, want to grab a cup of coffee some time?
I’ve had an almost 100% response rate (all accepting the offer).
Now your demographics and mine aren’t the same, but I can only recommend trying it. I thought of it after reading one of BD’S recommendations that I think is important to have in mind:
Either she’s interested or she’s not. She will either know that she wants to go out with you very quickly or know that she will never go out with you at all.
With apps like tinder, you already know she’s interested. Be the guy that’s not beta and writing her a thousand messages. For every message beyond number three, you are most likely lowering her attraction for you rather than increasing it.
And if you get a no – you didn’t make any investment anyway.
I’d even take a 2/10 success rate any day over a 5/10 if I had to spend days writing beforehand – but my stats show incredibly higher success rates now than when I customised my messages.
Might try it out on non – match dating apps as well and give a report some time
Parade
Posted at 12:06 am, 30th August 2016@JB
The match based dating apps are pretty garbage for me. I match approximately 1 chick per day on tinder, and the one I match is…well, probably about 200lbs overweight. That said, when I do happen to match an attractive chick on there what you said is pretty much exactly what I do…”Hey, how’s it going?” “blah” “blah, let’s grab a drink”. I might also need to research how to write a good tinder profile, or setup my profile in a new area to see if it’s just my location that’s causing me to get the terrible matches. I’ll have to check out happn, haven’t even heard of that one.
In no case do I go more than 3 messages without asking her out, and if I get any resistance or hesitance I just drop her (whether it’s from tinder or OKC). Don’t get me wrong, though, I’m not complaining. I do get laid, and, while the attractiveness could go up a bit, it’s not like I’m fucking people I find repulsive just to fuck someone.
My usual approach on OKC is to play the quickmatch game until I match with someone I find attractive. Once I do I send her a “Hey, how’s it going” or “hey, I noticed you liked <blah> <some question/comment>” (the second from skimming her profile *briefly*). If she responds I respond to whatever question she had and pitch a date. If she responds negatively or neutrally I drop her and move on.
JB
Posted at 12:33 am, 30th August 2016@parade
Well it seems that you have your tactics under control.
In my city, happn is most popular among the more attractive girls, and the response rate is clearly higher than tinder. Match rate is fairly low though – but hey, at least then you don’t have to waste time.
Good luck and do tell me if you’ve gotten some success with a new app
Ilconte
Posted at 07:49 pm, 30th August 2016BD, amazing stories! I’ve identified me with all of them in at least one aspect.
Thanks!
POB
Posted at 02:11 pm, 31st August 2016I don’t want to derail the thread ’cause this is kinda off topic, but by “online msgs” I’m guessing you’re meaning “openers”. By your comments you probably know that sending a ton of messages goes against common sense when doing online (works for a few handfull, but you have to know exactly what you’re doing…and most guys don’t).
I do blitz and send massive openers and my results are good (95% are HB7,5s to 8,5s from Tinder+Happn+a little Lovoo…droped OKC because it’s not popular here), so I know the strategy works (and I use the same opener since forever).
Never got great results when I tried to customize anything or go the “text player with a lot of shenanigans” route…in fact just wasted my time. But I’m the same as you: I do customize a little depending on the answer and three exchanges tops to pitch a date.
Right now I’m not doing online cause my rotation is ok. Plus I still have some good leads from the last blitz (and a very good one recently popped up from social game). But if I have to go back in the future, I’ll keep doing the same.
MM
Posted at 06:43 am, 10th September 2016BD –
Thanks. This is very inspiring, especially for an old bastard like me (51).
Dylan
Posted at 08:49 pm, 29th September 2016Hi! I just found your blog and it has better advice than ANYONE has given me.
The only problem I have is I’m 16 years old. Your articles seem to be targeting people who are 18 and above. So not all of this stuff applies to me.
I grew up being forced to go to a Catholic school where I learned good manners, boring religion, and no social skills. Going to a public high school definitely improved them though.
I’ve had 3 girlfriends that lasted no longer than a month. Before high school, I dated dominants who asked me out first. The 3rd girl was someone I met last year. She was submissive, but I got her to like me. She was not very pretty but we got along well, and I could tell that she liked me. So I had high confidence, made bold moves early, and kissed her a lot. But I broke up with her after realizing she was more boring than I thought.
I’d say I’m a little bit better than beta. Around girls and guys I’m about the same: friendly, funny, open minded, and I don’t judge. The problem is, I’m not very assertive and I don’t show leadership skills. I just sit back and let life happen.
My long term goal, like many people on here, is to be an Alpha 2.0. I have been building up confidence recently, but I just don’t know what to say to look confident to girls. Especially in high school, it seems you just have to be cocky and popular to win a girl.
Short term goal is to have sex before I graduate. I am bold enough to make moves on girls like kissing and flirting. I just find it hard to ask a girl about sex.
What are your tips for me in high school so I won’t be a virgin coming out of high school?
Caleb Jones
Posted at 10:01 am, 30th September 2016Giving advice to guys in high school is a little complicated. You have no skill and are in an environment where you have no freedom. My usual advice is to wait until you graduate, then get to work on building your Alpha 2.0 life, but maybe that’s too simplistic.
Perhaps I’ll make a blog post about this soon, since I get this question semi-regularly from guys your age. I’ll give it some thought.