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I’ve joked several times about Tom Cruise’s relationship model. This model has also been used by various other high-SMV men and celebrities, including Rupert Murdoch, Larry King, Rod Stewart, Donald Trump, Nicolas Cage, Billy Bob Thornton, and many others

It’s when you marry a young hot girl in her twenties, and as soon as she hits her thirties (or early forties in some cases) and she’s not quite so young anymore, you immediately divorce her, find a new hot twenty-something girl, marry her, and repeat the process.

You just get married and divorced over and over again.

Men who do this end up getting divorced three, four, five, even as many as eight times.

Some men follow this model but without getting legally married, like Leonardo DiCaprio or pre-marriage George Clooney.

This “trading in for a newer model” becomes a full-on lifestyle for these men.

It should probably go without saying that I think this model is completely stupid because it introduces mass chaos into your life on a regular basis.

Getting divorced, even under the best of scenarios, is a massive disruption to your life, career, emotions, children, spirit, business, and finances.

Doing this over and over again for decades on end is a sure path to long-term unhappiness, regardless of how rich, powerful, famous, or good-looking you are.

Moreover, if you just took my advice, never got monogamous, and always have a nice portfolio of young FBs on the side in addition to your wife (something I’ve been doing for a decade now to great success) then you can indeed have the best of both worlds; a long-term woman to grow old with while still getting laid with the hot young women your male biology desires.

All of that being said, the question is a valid one to ask:

What happens when your OLTR wife or long-term live-in (or not live-in) girlfriend gets old enough to be physically unattractive to you? How do you handle this?

Monogamous morons handle this by getting divorced and completely fucking up their lives. Or they cheat on their wives with much younger women, get caught, and suffer assloads of drama. But these methods are clearly stupid.

Non-monogamous Alpha Male 2.0s like myself just keep a stable of side-women who are young enough to keep the juices flowing, so even if the OLTR wife/GF gets “old” the man still has his sexual desires satisfied forever.

Yet, it’s still a valid question to ask even of a man in an OLTR who already has young FBs on the side.

I’ve been asked several times before what I would do if I married a hot woman and she later gained a bunch of weight and became really fat. (FYI, this is exactly what happened to Pierce Brosnan, though apparently his wife is finally starting to lose weight.)

What would I do in this case?

My answer has always been that I would just continue to see my FBs on the side, and I would continue to be with my wife as long as everything else in the relationship was going well. True, I wouldn’t have sex with her very much (if ever), which wouldn’t be ideal for any marriage, but it would be workable, again, if nothing else in the relationship was wrong.

However, I also quickly add that if I were married to a woman who gained 200 pounds, there probably would be something else wrong in the relationship (how could there not be?), meaning the marriage/relationship would indeed be threatened and may fail.

Luckily, my wife, Pink Firefly, is very tiny and extremely ectomorphic and will never be fat because that’s not how her body works (opposites attract, I guess). Indeed, she’s become skinnier and more fit the longer we’ve been married, instead of getting slowly fatter over time like most American wives do.

Yet, PF is still human and, if we stay married for the rest of my life (which is and always has been my intention), the day will come when she will start to look “old,” and therefore less physically attractive.

The good news is that day is still quite a ways off because even though she’s 45, she still looks great. She looks young, has no wrinkles, has a near-six-pack, and is a size zero with a great body. She has excellent genetics for aging because both her parents look amazingly young for their ages. And she goes out of her way to take care of herself and her appearance, again, very unlike most middle-aged Western women who have been married to the same man for 10 years.

More good news is that I’m perfectly attracted to older women (in addition to much younger women) and always have been.

For example:

• I lost my virginity to a woman who was almost 20 years older than me and had a great time.
• The oldest woman I’ve ever had sex with was 55 years old, and that’s when I was still in my thirties, and she was fantastic. I saw her several times and enjoyed every minute of it.
• I have personally met a handful of women in their fifties and even sixties who were attractive enough for me to have sex with. They’re not typical, but they’re definitely out there.

I’m not an extremist like Leo DiCaprio, where as soon as a woman turns 25, 30, or 35, I’m suddenly disgusted and turned off.

As long as an older woman doesn’t get fat (and that’s a big IF when talking about Western women, but I’m international so I don’t have that problem), doesn’t start cutting her hair short, doesn’t stop doing the makeup, hair coloring, Botox, and skincare regimens, continues to exercise and take care of her health, and maintain the body type I like (small body + big ass + big tits), I’m usually happy to have sex with her regardless of her numerical age.

This is a huge advantage for me in terms of maintaining happy, very long-term relationships (and marriages).

If you combine this with my non-monogamy and Pink Firefly’s very slow aging, I think that’s the winning combination.

So here’s the answer to the wife-getting-old question. It’s three components:

1. NEVER get monogamous to ANY woman, even if you fall in love, get married, and/or have children with her. ALWAYS have young FBs on the side whenever you need them.

2. If you do get married (OLTR Marriage only, please) select a woman who will age extremely well because of her personality, viewpoints, lifestyle, and genetics.

3. Chill the fuck out about this stupid red pill thing of “women hitting the wall” or women having “dried up ovaries” and thinking that women suddenly become sexually or relationship-unworthy as soon as they hit their mid-thirties or whatever. I agree Tom Cruise is a pretty cool guy and there’s a lot to like about him, but his relationship life is goddamn shitshow and always has been; it’s nothing you want to emulate.

If you combine those three things, just as I have, you won’t need to worry about “the wife getting too old.”

I personally never think about it.

When I’m in my seventies and Pink Firefly is in her sixties and I’ll still enjoy banging the shit out of her… and my other younger women too.

That’s the model you want to emulate if you ever want to settle down.