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As I’ve shown and discussed hundreds of times over the past 15 years, we live in the most irrational era the Collapsing Western World has ever seen. That doesn’t mean that prior eras weren’t irrational. They certainly were. I’m saying that the 2020s in the West is the most irrational time Western civilization has ever experienced. Not surprising since the entire civilization is on its way out.

One of the many problems with this is that irrationality breeds hatred.

You see this in politics (the psycho woke left vs. the Trump Will Save America idiots).

You see this in international relations (Ultra-Corrupt Russia vs. Ultra-Corrupt Ukraine, Murderous Hamas vs. Murderous Israel Military).

You see this in pop culture (left-wing nerds who love modern-day Star Wars vs. right-wing nerds who hate modern-day Star Wars, angry men vs. Taylor Swift and her fangirls).

And you see this in dating and relationships with men and women hating each other because of the revulsion of and/or misunderstanding of the biological differences between the two sexes.

This man/woman hatred makes an already difficult dating, relationship, and marriage situation in the Collapsing West even more difficult than it already has become.

Since our goal here at Alpha Male 2.0 is to become long-term consistently happy, we can’t have any of this. Instead of hating women, we need to accept how women are biologically wired (OBW) and societally conditioned (SP) by a collapsing, left-wing civilization and love them for the complex creatures they are.

On the flip side, we also need to shield ourselves from those women who hate men and not allow them into our lives at all (or if we’re very careful, as distant FBs only). We also need to adhere to Alpha 2.0 structures that protect us from the threats modern-day Western women pose to us (Cardinal Rules, OLTR Marriage, nonmonogamy, etc).

To understand why men and women hate each other, we need to examine the two reasons. One is the misunderstanding of how we are different, and the second is the hatred of how we are different.

The Misunderstanding of How Men And Women Are Different

The first phase of this hatred stems directly from the lack of understanding men have about women and women have about men.

This is our old friend, gender myopia, a phrase I coined myself on this very blog many years ago. Gender myopia means that each gender (men and women) thinks the other gender wants exactly what they want. Men stupidly think that women want what men want, and women stupidly think that men want what women want.

And, of course, they don’t.

Here are some easy examples. Men would love it if women sent them nude pics, therefore men stupidly think the reverse is true, thus we have millions of men sending pictures of their cocks to women unasked. This, of course, never works, confusing men (and later, angering men, but we’ll get to that).

This also goes straight to the one excuse men have left against nonmonogamy, which is “But she’ll go fuck a bunch of guys if she’s allowed to do that!!!” As I’ve analyzed and shown in great detail, most women won’t do that at all, because women are not men and want different things than men. Men would go have sex with other women if they were allowed to, but most women have no desire to go fuck other men just because they can.

But men are stupid and think that women want exactly what they want, which they don’t.

To be clear, women are stupid about this too. How many online dating profiles have you seen where the woman is bragging about how strong and independent she is and talks about her awesome career and her kickass college degree? I’ve seen thousands of these. Why are women bragging about these things? Because they’re stupid and think that because they, the women, want men to be strong, educated, and have great careers, then of course men want women who have these things too.

But, of course, they don’t, so this dating “technique” women use only serves to turn men off, just like when a guy sends a woman a dick pic.

Then women get confused and then angry, thinking that “men can’t handle a strong woman” or whatever.

You’ll also see this when women say that men “want a woman who challenges them” or when women do things like kiss a man’s neck gently during sex. Men don’t want these things. Women want these things from men. So all it does is confuse men (or turn them off) and piss off the women.

I’ve written entire chapters in many of my books about how DIFFERENT men and women are. You need to acknowledge this. More importantly, you need to accept it, which is even harder to do.

That brings us to the next phase of this…

Why Men and Women Hate How The Other Gender Is Different

After going through years of battling and getting defeated by gender myopia, from women who can’t find quality men on dating apps to men having women divorce them even though they “promised they would never do that,” both men and women start to get really angry about all of this.

They go online and start talking to other people of their gender who have also been defeated by gender myopia, start hearing about other stories that match theirs, and their anger increases.

Then they start doing research online about the behaviors of the other gender and start screaming and ranting about how horrible they are.

The way men exhibit this is by becoming hardcore red pill, black pill, Andrew Tate worshippers, or Jordan Peterson worshippers. They scream nonstop about things like hypergamy (their favorite word), alpha widows, 304s, OnlyFans, financial divorce rape, and so on.

They quote stats about the high percentage of women who demand six-figure, six-pack men and how 80% of the women are going after the top 20% of men and how the bottom 80% are completely screwed, and how evil women are for wanting this.

They lament about how great everything was back in the 1950s when women were loyal, Christian, and perfect. And how every beta male was “handed” a “good woman” by society and how we need to get back to that (which, of course, the Western world never will).

And so on.

Women, on the other hand, become angry woke feminists, or something close to this. They scream about the patriarchy, the male gaze, fuckboys, small dick energy, and so on.

They’re infuriated that men are attracted to women’s physical appearance. They’re enraged when men still watch porn or look at hot girls on Instagram even though they’re already married or have a girlfriend. And whenever a man cheats on a woman, which is all the time because monogamy doesn’t work, this rage escalates.

This rage goes on ultra-overdrive when a woman hits age 33 or so, and spends the rest of her life screaming that all of the men her age want women younger than her and how unfair this all is and how evil men are for wanting this.

Are all of these angry red pill men and angry woke women factually incorrect?

No. In most cases, when these men and women state these things, they’re stating facts. Yes, women are attracted to men with more money, fame, and status, and yes, men are attracted more to how a woman looks and how young she is.

The problem is not that these things are untrue. The problem is that this is how men and women are designed, at their very core, from the ground up. There’s nothing you can do about it. As I’ve said many times, if you have a problem with how men and women are wired, don’t yell at them; go yell at God (or whomever else you think created these creatures).

Women aren’t hypergamous because they’re evil. They are hypergamous because that’s how they were designed over 150,000 years ago.

Men aren’t sexually attracted to younger women because they’re evil. They’re attracted to them because that’s how they were designed over 150,000 years ago.

If you’re going to be angry at either of these groups of people because of these things, the problem isn’t with them. The problem is with you.

You own a dog. Every time someone knocks on your door or rings your doorbell, your dog barks loudly and incessantly.

Is the dog doing this because he’s evil? Is he doing this to annoy you? Is he doing this because he’s selfish or immature? Is he doing this because he’s sinful?

No. He’s doing this because he’s a fucking dog. Dogs bark. It’s how they’re designed by nature hundreds of thousands of years before you were ever born.

If your response to the dog’s barking is that now you suddenly hate your dog and all other dogs because they’re evil, then you’re just being stupid.

(And yes, if the sound of a dog’s bark drives you insane, you shouldn’t own a dog.)

This is why the angry red pill guy screaming about hypergamy or whatever is just as stupid and irrational as the woke Gen Z girl on Instagram screaming about the male gaze. Both of these irrational maniacs are angry about how men and women are biologically designed.

That’s dumb. If you’re going to be angry about that, you’re simply going to be angry forever. Your only option for happiness at that point is to become a hermit and live out in the woods with no internet and no human contact with anyone for the rest of your life, and we both know you’re not going to do that.

Instead, if you want to be long-term happy like I am, you need to emotionally accept that women are designed to want things very different from you, as well as things you find irritating or unfair, and make that okay.

I’ve been posting dating and relationship content for 15 years straight without a break, since 2009. Have you ever heard me get angry or scream at women about how they dump men or want men who make more money? Nope. I’ve reported on these topics dispassionately and shown you how to avoid these problems for yourself. But I don’t hate women for this. They’re just acting the way they’re designed to act, just like you’re acting the way you were designed to act when you see your perfect 10 on Instagram and get a stiffy.

I have never hated women about any of this stuff and have never felt emotionally angry about any of it. Oh sure, I’ve talked about it, made fun of it, talked about how irrational a lot of it is, but I’ve done that with how men behave too.

Once you accept that women are like this and it’s 100% okay with you, the last piece to this is to design a lifestyle where these desires women have won’t hurt you. That’s what Alpha Male 2.0 is all about. Nonmonogamy, separation of finances, Five Flags, enforceable legal protections, and all the other models I talk about will protect you 100% against all the stuff the black pill guys, red pill guys, Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson, Fresh and Fit, Rollo, and everyone else constantly scream about.

Hell, if all you do is always date at least two or three women, never get legally married, and ever combine any finances with any woman, just those three things will completely protect you at least 90% from these problems.

That’s yet another reason you should accept these aspects of women. They can’t hurt you if you live an Alpha Male 2.0 lifestyle. Look carefully and you’ll see that 99% of men who bitch about these things are either pussy beta males or angry, outcome-dependent Alpha Male 1.0s. These guys can and often do get hurt by these things, but that’s their fault because they choose not to engage in Alpha 2.0 models which will protect them.

Understand, accept, and then protect yourself.

Then you’ll be happy.

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Question of The Week

Should You NEVER Date Single Moms?

R.J. Writes: What is your response to the guys saying you should never date a single mom because she just wants financial assistance and a provider for her kids? You’re probably going to say it’s okay to have single moms as FBs but what about MLTR or OLTR?

My Answer:

Real stats from my life. I have dated and had sex with dozens of single mothers, as FBs and yes, as MLTRs too. I have literally never, and I mean never, had any of these women pressure me to be a provider, boyfriend, husband, spend more money on them, or spend money on their kids more than any of the women who didn’t have kids. I mean it. It’s never happened.

Moreover, I’ve spoken to many other men who have had sex with lots of single moms as FBs or MLTRs and they report similar experiences almost across the board.

This “advice” comes from philosophy and not objective reality or experience. It comes right out of stupid guy-logic that states “She’s a single mom, therefore she needs money, therefore the only reason she’ll date you is for your money. Makes sense to me.” Honestly, this sounds like something a guy who’s only had sex with five girls would say.

Now, if you get into an OLTR (serious long-term girlfriend) with a single mom, then yeah, she’s going to expect you to provider-up to her and her kids, but honestly, if you do that, aren’t you asking for this? Why would THAT surprise you at that point? It shouldn’t, and if it does, you’re really stupid. I have found that most men who get into an OLTR (not MLTR) with a single mom fully expect provider shit from her at that point, which again, should be expected.

If you don’t want to have a serious girlfriend or wife who already has small children, that’s fine, don’t do that. Objectively speaking, it is indeed less work to have a girlfriend/wife who has no kids. I have no problem with that. But to say “never date” as in “never have sex with one” (meaning FB) or “never date one” (meaning MLTR), that’s dumb and factually inaccurate. I’ve had many single mom FBs and MLTRs (the vast majority of them in their twenties) and the vast majority of them were great, and I had a wonderful time with them.