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You may or may not already know this, but my lovely wife, Pink Firefly, likes to watch me have sex with other women.

Yes, I have a rough life.

(If you’re still monogamous… WHY? Stupid.)

When I say she “likes” it, I mean she really likes it. It super-duper turns her on. It’s her big sexual fantasy. When she watches me do this, assuming the dynamic is good (and it usually is), she gets so turned on that she can’t stand it. Many times I’ll drive the “guest” woman home after the little event is over and as soon as I get back Pink Firefly is horny as hell and ready to rock, and I’ll have sex with her after just having sex with the other woman. It’s fucking fantastic.

She does not like threesomes at all. It’s not her thing. Fortunately, it’s also not my thing either (I’ve done them but I’m not a big fan), so we’re compatible that way. Several times various women have encouraged her to join us in the fun, but Pink Firefly politely declines and just keeps watching. It’s her sexual fantasy.

Sexual fantasy is the key word here.

Do you tell people your sexual fantasies?

No, probably not.

Sexual fantasies are usually things people keep to themselves. People do this because usually these things are disgusting, weird, or at the very least, societally inappropriate. Since most people are outcome-dependent, they are terrified that other people might find their sexual fantasies strange/evil/gross/inappropriate, so they sadly keep their sexual fantasies to themselves, at least for the most part.

I don’t have this problem because as an Alpha Male 2.0, I’m outcome independent and don’t have a shit what people think, so I’ve already made my big sexual fantasies known to the public. My biggest one was mother-daughter, a fantasy I had my entire life until I finally did it several times with several different mother-daughter couples, including one woman I went to high school and her daughter (and yes, for you prudes, all the daughters were of legal age).

This means it’s no longer a fantasy, but a memory, which is much better than a fantasy, trust me.

You need to remember that as much as your hidden sexual fantasies turn you on and excite you, this is just as true, if not more so, for the women in your life. Women have sexual fantasies too, and women tend to get more emotionally involved with their sexual fantasies than men in most cases.

Your job is to uncover your women’s sexual fantasies and then provide them if you can.

I’m very proud to say that I have been the only man to provide man many women with their deepest, darkest, most exciting sexual fantasies. No other man in these women’s sexual histories (or futures) did or will give them the experience of their sexual fantasy. Just me. This really helps things like my 94% return rate, low drama relationships, and long-term track record of women staying with me for a very long time despite the fact I’m non-monogamous and always having sex with other women.

Once a woman is in a long-term relationship with me (FB, MLTR, or OTLR doesn’t matter) I go out of my way to ask her to tell me what her biggest hidden sexual fantasy is. They’re usually embarrassed to talk about it and resist telling me, but I push hard on this. Eventually, they finally relent tell me. Then, if I can provide the fantasy, and usually I can, we do it. Then her fucking mind is blown and she loves me forever (figuratively speaking or, in some cases, literally).

Sometimes I enjoy the fantasy too.

For example, you would think that Pink Firefly just told me one day that she really wanted to see me have sex with other women, or perhaps that I told her I wanted her to watch me. Not at all. This was her secret sexual fantasy, so she kept this private. Only after dating her for many years did she finally have the courage to tell me, and even then I had to really rip it out of her. It sounded so weird (to her) that she didn’t want to say it out loud.

But once she said it, and described it in detail, I thought it was fantastic (of course). We did it a bunch of times and she loved every minute of it.

Like most women and their sexual fantasies, she had all the details mapped out in her head.

“My fantasy,” she finally said, “Is to sit on my comfy chair right next to the bed here, with a glass of my favorite wine and my little dog on my lap, while I watch you fuck one of your FBs. I want to watch you to put her in all the positions I like and I want to hear the noises you both make. I want to be really close to both of you so I can see everything, but not too close because I don’t want to disturb either one of you.”

So we’ve done that, many times, and the rest is history.

Sometimes, a woman’s sexual fantasy is pretty simple. Maybe she wants to be choked during sex or called certain things during sex, and her current or ex beta male boyfriend is too much of a pussy to do it or he would look funny if he tried. Those are easy.

Other times, the sexual fantasies get really involved. Just this year I had a conversation with one of my long-term women, asking for her sexual fantasy. Immediately she got nervous and looked downward, which is always a good sign because that tells me she’s never told anyone because the fantasy is too weird.

“Seriously,” I said in a loving voice, and I meant it, “It’s okay. Tell me what you want.”

She finally looked up at me and her eyes sparkled.

“I want to be a bunny when you fuck me,” she said.

“Oh,” I said, “Like a Playboy bunny?”

“No,” she said, “A BUNNY.”

She went on to explain, and as usual, she had all the details mapped out. She wanted to wear a butt plug with a fussy bunny tail attached, wear fuzzy bunny ears, hold her hands in front of her with fingers pointed downward like the Emperor from Star Wars, stick out her two front teeth, make bunny sounds, and be a bunny rabbit while I fucked her.

As explained, she got super turned on. It was really cute. It was her fantasy.

(We haven’t gotten around to doing it yet because of the logistics involved, but I promise you we will. And she’ll never forget it. Shit, I probably won’t either.)

I once was dating a 19-year-old as an MLTR who finally revealed to me that her big sexual fantasy was to set up several cameras around the room and film the two of us having sex so she could pretend to be a porn actress. We did it more than once and it was great. (I still have the video on my encrypted offline hard drives.) This was many years ago and today, not surprisingly, she has an audience of her own (nothing sexual though).

Sometimes, sadly, you won’t be able to give her the sexual fantasy she wants. For example, another one of my current long-term women told me her sexual fantasy: she wanted to get fucked by a girl wearing a strap-on. Well, I’m not a girl so I can’t do that. Instead, we had to settle for some of her other smaller sexual preferences which were easier.

Hilariously, she got around to doing this last year for the first (and last) time. She hated it. She said she liked the girl but the strap-on didn’t feel that great. Then she had sex with me, and after we were done she said, “Okay, yeah, your dick feels WAYYYYY better than strap-on.” So, lesson learned, at least she experienced it and crossed it off her list.

You might be wondering what you are supposed to do if she tells you her fantasy and you can do it but you don’t want to. Like, she wants you to beat her with a whip, or worse, she wants to whip you.

Set whatever sexual boundaries you want. My only boundary during sex is that I don’t want to feel any physical pain. I’m just not into that (but if you are, and a lot of men are, please go for it). So any sexual fantasy a woman gives me that involves me feeling any pain, I’m going to pass. But that’s literally the only thing I refuse to do, and I’ve never had a woman state that as her fantasy.

Thankfully, women’s sexual fantasies tend to be less disgusting than a lot of men’s sexual fantasies. I’ve never heard of a woman wanting a man to pee or poop on her, but I’ve heard of many men wanting this from women. So the odds of you being able to fulfill her fantasies are pretty high.

Have this conversation with your women, just your long-term ones. I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised with the results.